As a victim of a police officer, your situation is very different than other domestic violence victims. Few people seem to understand this. Learn about safety options. Listen to other survivors. Know that you are not alone.
There are no easy answers. The fact that many women have survived attests to the fact that your survival is possible. Know that you are not exaggerating, and you are certainly not crazy.
Female police officers face an ongoing struggle for acceptance and respect. You probably feel a great deal of pressure to hide what is happening. Learn about policy impact, support resources, and safety options.
An advocate is the one person who is there solely for the victim. Learn why standard remedies are inadequate when working with officer-involved domestics.
Police culture instills a sense of entitlement to power & authority over the rest of society. Learn how training and attitudes influence individual & department response.
It's critical that attorneys consider the special circumstances of police officer victims and how those circumstances affect legal strategies, possible outcomes and safety planning.
Our need to be heard and to be visible is beginning to overcome our fear. We are breaking our silence. We will no longer be invisible.
Material written by Diane Wetendorf, Dottie L. Davis, Lundy Bancroft and others.
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